Tuesday, March 30, 2010

reason,season, or lifetime?

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you know which one it is; you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON; it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or provide some guidance and support; to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be; whatever it may be. Sometimes, without any wrongdoing; the relationship might come to an end. They may die, or maybe just walk away, sometimes the things they do may cause you to take the stand.You need not despair; for your need has been met- be it pleasantly, or not. Your desires might be fulfilled- then their work is done.

When people come in to your life for a SEASON; your turn has come to share, grow, and learn. The experience might make you laugh, bring you peace, or leave you in pain. You could learn something new, and the joy that comes at such times is so unbelievable- for it's only for a SEASON. Try not to doubt; if it's for a SEASON, it might feel real- because it's real.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, you build a solid foundation to have solid relationships. Yours is to accept the lesson! Love them, and put what you have learned to use in every other relationship, and area of your life.

Remember: "love is blind; friendship is calirvoyant."